“What we don’t understand, we often find ourselves repeating…”

You leave one relationship. You swear the next one will be different. Then six months in, you notice it. The same silence. The same feeling of shrinking yourself to keep the peace. Different face, same story.

Or maybe it’s not love. Maybe it’s money that disappears right when you finally get ahead. Or a job where you’re overlooked again, in a new office, with a new boss, saying the same things to yourself you said three jobs ago.

If you’ve lived this, I’m not here to tell you it’s a coincidence. Hi, I’m Erica Grooms, founder of Loving Hands and Loving Heart, and I’ve spent over 40 years doing this kind of soul work with people like you, hundreds of them. I want to walk you through what’s actually happening when a pattern keeps repeating, and how the benefits of Akashic clearing fit into breaking it.

What is an Akashic Clearing?

The Akashic Records are often described as the energetic record of your soul. Every choice, every lesson, every vow you’ve ever made, even the ones from lifetimes you don’t consciously remember- all of it.

The word “Akashic” comes from the Sanskrit akasha, meaning sky or ether. It traces back to ancient Vedic thought and was picked up again by Theosophical teachers in the late 1800s. People have been pointing to this same idea for a very long time.

I want to be clear about my own role here too. I don’t heal you. I facilitate. I am a catalyst for your own transformation. I open the space, a bridge, and with your powerful intention you are in allowance to transform what no longer serves you. Your own life force energy, guided by Source, your higher-self, and by angelic guidance, does the actual work. I’ve learned to trust that part completely, because I’ve watched it happen too many times not to.

Why Do the Same Patterns Keep Showing Up?

This is where I think we sometimes look in the wrong direction.

When something keeps happening, our first instinct can be to focus on the person, circumstance, or situation outside of ourselves and look at it in a negative way as if we were a victim. What if we see it as a blessing getting our attention so that we can transform it.

What if there is something underneath the situation that deserves our attention?

• A belief
• A fear
• A definition of how we have defined our beliefs
• A way of protecting ourselves that once made sense
• A story we have carried for so long that we no longer recognize it as a story

In my own transformation work, I have written about observing patterns, connecting with deeper truth, letting go, releasing control, and questioning the definitions of the beliefs that no longer serve us.

I have learned that awareness matters. You cannot lovingly change what you refuse to see. Awareness is everything! It is the first step.

And sometimes, simply becoming willing to look at a pattern differently creates the first opening for transformation.

What are the Benefits of Akashic Clearing

People come here expecting one thing and often leave with something bigger. A few of the shift’s clients describe most often:

• Relief that doesn’t have a logical explanation. Something lifts. You can’t always point to why, but you feel lighter, like you put down a bag you’d been carrying so long you forgot it was heavy.
• Clarity around decisions that used to feel impossible. When the old fear or old belief is given a new definition, the decision that felt so tangled suddenly looks simple.
• The pattern actually stops. Not manages. Stops. This is the one people are most sceptical of until it happens to them. The fear, and the anxiety just disappears.
• A different relationship with your own history. You stop seeing your past as something that happened to you and start seeing it as information.

Where Does Angelic Guidance Come Into the Process?

This is an important part of my work because I do not see transformation as something we have to figure out entirely on our own.

My work as an Angelic Channel creates space for connection with your Guardian Angel and spiritual guidance, while keeping the process co-creative and grounded in your own journey.

I believe we are connected to something greater than ourselves: to Source, to divine guidance, and to a higher consciousness that can help us see beyond the limitations of the moment.

Angelic guidance is not about handing your power away. Quite the opposite.

The purpose is to strengthen your connection with your own inner wisdom and help you recognize the guidance that may already be available to you. This is also why I believe the benefits of angelic channelling are not simply about receiving a message.

The deeper value can be in what you do with that awareness. It empowers your own innate ability to connect with higher consciousness.

Can This Help During a Major Life Change?

Major transitions have a way of bringing old patterns to the surface.

• A career change
• A relationship ending or beginning
• A change in identity
• A health or lifestyle journey
• A crossroads where you know something needs to change but cannot yet see what comes next…

These are the moments when spiritual guidance for major life changes can provide a different kind of support.

You do not always need someone to tell you which road to take.

Sometimes you need a quiet place to hear yourself think. Sometimes you need to understand why you are afraid to take the road you already know is calling you.

And sometimes you need help reconnecting with the part of yourself that became quiet while you were busy surviving, pleasing, achieving, or simply getting through the day.

That is where spiritually guided life coaching can meet practical transformation.

It is not about escaping your life. It is about becoming more conscious of how you are living it.

Check out this blog: What Does a Spiritual Coach Do? Benefits, Techniques & What to Expect

What Happens After the Pattern Becomes Clear?

Awareness is not the end of the journey. It is the beginning of making a different choice.

That is why my coaching process also includes Co-Creative Action Mapping and Grounded Integration. Insight matters, but so does what you do with it.

A new understanding can become part of your everyday life through reflection, intentional choices, spiritual practices, and practical action.

You may not change everything overnight. You do not have to.

Sometimes transformation happens one honest realization, one conscious choice, and one act of self-love at a time.

And perhaps that is what breaking a pattern really means.

Not becoming someone who never struggles again.

Becoming someone who can recognize the pattern without allowing it to define the next chapter.

Once the pattern is recognized it no longer becomes a pattern it becomes a conscious choice.

The Ending Note: Maybe the Pattern is Not Your Problem. Maybe It is Your Invitation

If you keep experiencing the same pattern, I don’t want you to look at yourself and think, “What is wrong with me?” I would invite you to ask a different question. “What is this pattern showing me?”

That question opens a different door. You do not have to arrive with all the answers. You simply need a willingness to look honestly at what is asking for your attention and discover the definition you are giving it.

If you are curious about whether this is right for you, I offer a free 20-minute Discovery Call at Loving Hands Loving Heart. We can talk about where you are, what you are experiencing, and what kind of support may be appropriate for your journey.

Sometimes the first step toward change is simply being willing to see yourself differently.

Love and gratitude,

Erica Grooms

Frequently Asked Questions

1. What are the benefits of Akashic clearing?

Akashic Clearing may help you become more aware of deep-seated beliefs or energetic patterns that may be contributing to recurring emotional or life challenges.

2. How is this different from regular therapy or life coaching?

Most coaching works with your physical mind and your current goals. This work goes underneath that, to the soul and energetic level, looking for the root instead of managing the symptom. It’s meant to sit alongside professional care, not replace it.

3. Will I feel something happen during the session?

Some people feel it right away, physically or emotionally. Others don’t notice the shift until days or weeks later, when a familiar situation suddenly feels different. Both are normal.

4. What happens during an Akashic Clearing session?

Within my Angelic Transformational Coaching work, Akashic Clearing is part of a broader process that may also include Direct Angelic Channelling, Co-Creative Action Mapping, and Grounded Integration. Each session is uniquely guided according to the individual and what is ready to be explored.

5. How many sessions does it usually take to break a pattern?

It depends because everyone is truly unique and there maybe multiple layers to how deep it goes. Some people notice movement after one session. Others need several, as we peel back what’s underneath. There’s no set number although, the most popular is six sessions or three months including two sessions per month.